Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness. For we all stumble in many ways. And if anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body. If we put bits into the mouths of horses so that they obey us, we guide their whole bodies as well. Look at the ships also: though they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things.
How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so. Does a spring pour forth from the same opening both fresh and salt water? Can a fig tree, my brothers, bear olives, or a grapevine produce figs? Neither can a salt pond yield fresh water.
James 3:1-12
This chapter begins with something very interesting. There is a warning that most should not be teachers. I feel like this isn't a popular thing to say. I would argue that many people want to be teachers. I want to be a teacher. But, for most of us, we actually shouldn't become teachers. Perhaps we should stop and ask what he means by teacher. I don't think this is limited to a pastor. This probably isn't limited to a school teacher or a motivational speaker. Perhaps things like these are the main target, but I think it's much larger than this. When I see someone walking into traffic, am I not teaching them when I warn them about the danger of not looking both ways before crossing the road? What about when my mom tells me that I should eat butter instead of margarine? I guess we are all teachers every now and then. But when it comes to this passage, perhaps the idea is somewhere in the middle. Sure, pastors are definitely included. However, when people take strongly to imparting some "wisdom" to others are become proponents of a given message, then maybe this would also be included in what James is talking about. In any case, becoming a teacher is a serious thing that not many people should become. The reason for this is because they will be judged with greater strictness.
Though teachers are judged with greater strictness and not many should become them, it is still a good thing to be a teacher. James is just warning about the seriousness. Looking to 1 Timothy, we see some good things about being a teacher: "Let the elders who rule well be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in preaching and teaching". So, before you get scared away from being a teacher, remember that there are still some that should be teachers and it is something that is even to be worthy of double honor.
To add more seriousness to this, James reminds his readers that "we all stumble in many ways". There is a gravity to what you teach, especially considering the fact that everyone makes mistakes. There are many ways in which people can screw up. People who don't make mistakes are those who are perfect. Question: is anyone perfect? Answer: God is perfect. For everyone else, we're not perfect. Therefore, we will all make mistakes. Does this mean that no one should be teachers? No, James only said that not many should become teachers. Instead, he is pointing to the seriousness of this. Take seriously the responsibility of a teacher. Sure, we all make mistakes, but teachers need to teach with the weight and seriousness of teaching in mind. Carefully consider the words that come out of your mouth.
There are a few illustrations that James provides. The first is of a horse. A horse is a relatively large animal. Yet, this large animal is guided by a small bit that is placed in its mouth. Similarly, large ships can be guided by a small rudder. These illustrations are used to point to the tongue. A person's tongue is small, yet it can guide and direct the whole course of a person. Just because it is small doesn't mean that it can't make a big difference.
Moving on, James talks about the destructive capability and power of a tongue. A forest can be set ablaze by a tiny fire. The tongue is like that fire. As James puts it: "The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell". The tongue is like that fire, staining the whole body and even affecting the entire course of life.
There is one thing that is interesting that James mentions. He adds at the end of verse 6: "and set on fire by hell". The source of this fire or what begins this fire is hell. This shows that the horrible things that come out of ones mouth and the destructive results come from hell itself. Now, this doesn't excuse a person from the responsibility of their actions, but it does warn us to remain on guard.
Can anyone tame the tongue? According to James, no one can. Does that mean we should give up? No, we need to work at it and fight sin, as we read about in Romans 8:13. Now, one person made an interesting point about those who are more quiet by nature. Some people seem to have a good handle and a tight reign on their tongues. When we think about these people, it seems as if there are exceptions to what James says here. What about people who are mute and cannot talk? These people obviously can tame their tongue because they can't say anything. Perhaps taming your tongue is more than just what you say. Perhaps it is about your outward expression to others. A mute person may use sign language or write. Someone who doesn't talk much still has body language. Even when you don't say something, you are expressing yourself, are you not? To not speak up in the fact of injustice is wrong, is it not? Then again, this goes a bit beyond what James is talking about here, isn't it? Still, you can shut your mouth and still have a problem with "taming your tongue". Your expressions of hate or disgust may not come out from your mouth, but can come out in different ways. Perhaps this is why Jesus explained that out of the mouth proceeds from the heart.
But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person. For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.
Matthew 15:18-19
Perhaps the issue is really about ones own heart, though James is addressing people's tongues. I remember hearing an illustration from a pastor. This guy described an illustration about a person carrying a cup of bitter water. Unfortunately, someone came by and bumped them and caused them to spill the bitter water out of the cup. So, the holder of the cup complained in anger, saying: "You caused me to spill all this bitter water out of my cup". However, the real issue was the fact that they were carrying the bitter water in the first place.
In any case, the issue at hand is taming the tongue and it is something I need to work on. Even if I'm quiet, this issue arguably goes beyond the tongue to my heart. Looking ahead at the last examples, we see James use the illustration of a spring, a tree and a pond. He asks, "Does a spring pour forth from the same opening both fresh and salt water". The answer is no. A spring can't produce both salt water and fresh water. It is either one or the other. Similarly, he asks, "Can a fig tree, my brothers, bear olives, or a grapevine produce figs". The answer is no. A fig tree produces figs, not olives. A grapevine produces grapes, not figs. Lastly, the illustration of a pond is similar to the illustration of a spring. A salt pond can't produce fresh water.
These illustrations are all to support his point. He is arguing that it doesn't make sense for one to use their mouth for both blessing and cursing. People may bless God but turn and curse people. James even makes notes that these people that are being cursed are "made in the likeness of God". How can you bless God but curse things made in the likeness of God? Just like a spring or a tree, it doesn't make sense for both blessing and cursing to come out of our mouths. We need to work at taming our tongue.
Maybe one of the reasons why James is so hard is because he is so "cut and dry". He is to the point and doesn't really explain "how". How are we to tame our tongue? He doesn't help us in that regard. It is still important that he addresses this and points his readers to this problem. We need to tame our tongues.