And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience— among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind.
-Ephesians 2:1-3
I particularly like Ephesians 2. I long time ago, I memorized verses one to 10. It talks about what we once were and God's saving grace. What's really cool is that if you look carefully, you can find a chiastic structure in it. Actually, probably in a few places in Ephesians. In any case, I really like it and I'm glad to have gotten to it.
Here at the beginning, Paul is still addressing his reader who are followers of Jesus. In particular, he is talking about them before they were saved "and you were dead in the trespasses and sins". This is what they once were and what they were before was dead in trespasses and sins. This is the state of people who are not saved by grace and the previous state of all who have been saved by grace.
Being dead in trespasses and sins is what believers used to walk in, "in which you once walked". Doing such a thing does not make one alone. Instead, those who are dead in trespasses and sins are ones who are "following the course of this world". The world and all its inhabitants are on a path, all drawn towards the same conclusion. It is only by saving grace that we are taken off that path that everyone is on.
Who is everyone following then? All dead in trespasses and sins, but they're not all just following the "course of this world". Though going along with everyone else, they are ultimately "following the prince of the power of the air". Translation: everyone's ultimately following the devil. He is further described as "the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience". Y'know what's really interesting? Maybe this is a little bit off topic, but I am reminded of a sermon illustration I heard a long time ago when I was younger. The sermon was about the wide and narrow gates. What's interesting is that both gates are labeled "heaven". In truth, the wide gate leads to destruction, but most people on that path believe otherwise. You can probably see it when you notice people with the attitude that they're going to heaven. Why do they say that they're going to heaven? They might reply "I'm a good person". Unfortunately, this is not the case because we know that the state of the unbeliever is "dead in the trespasses and sins". For a more concrete example I like Romans, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God". This is a little off topic, but in any case, the true reality is that the world is ultimately following the devil, though they may be deceived into thinking otherwise.
Following the devil is how we all used to be, "among whom we all once lived". In some ways, we learn of something else we were truly following, "the passions of our flesh". I am reminded of the words of James (and we're going through it at church right now).
But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death.
James 1:14-15
Desire leads to sin and sin leads to death. This makes me think of Yoda in the star wars movie. Following the devil and being in such a state also means that we're being lead by "the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind". Paul in Romans talks about this by calling it the flesh, living either by the flesh or by the spirit.
So, we once were "dead in trespasses and sins", following the rest of the world. Though, ultimately, we were following the devil. What we really were doing was following "the passions of our flesh", just going along with our bodily desires. How does Paul end this little section (v1-3)? "and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind". Y'know, I never really stopped to understand what this part meant. "By our very nature we were subject to God's anger" (NLT). I had thought it was meaning more along the lines of "we were full of anger". No, I was wrong. What it means is that by nature we were to be the under God's anger. Acting such a way and doing such things are what directs God's wrath toward you. It's not like you're just pissing off some parent by being annoying. Instead, we are breaking God's laws and are rightfully owed due punishment. We are not alone, this is the case for all, "like the rest of mankind". This doesn't excuse us, allowing us to say in our defense "but everyone else is doing it". No, we truly were in a desperate situation with no hope in ourselves apart from God.